Youth

Following are resources for teens and their parents, teachers, and mentors. Many of the articles and books referenced may be adapted for discussion in youth group formats.

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Where All My Safely Live
Where All Can Safely Live: A Guide to Understanding Bullying in Our Communities
Lutherans Concerned/North America
St. Paul, Minnesota, 2011


 
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On the Male Side of Middle
Paul Neudorf: Writer, Director, Editor The Brethren Mennonite Council for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Interests, 2011 Length: 12 minutes
 
Resource type(s): Movies and Multimedia
Rabbi Andrea Myers
It Gets Beautiful: One Rabbi's Perspective on Being Jewish and LGBTQ
Andrea Myers
Huffington Post, May 23, 2011
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Let's Talk About Sex
Let's Talk About Sex (2010), 62 mins.
Directed by James Houston, Not Rated
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Family Acceptance Project
Family Acceptance Project, SFSU, Video Campaign
Resource type(s): Movies and Multimedia
IMPACT, The LGBT Health and Development Program
IMPACT, Video Campaign
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Bob and Jack's 52-year Adventure
Stu Maddox and Joseph Applebaum, 2006, Running Length: 41 minutes
Resource type(s): Movies and Multimedia
Camp Out
Camp Out
Resource type(s): Movies and Multimedia
Bulletproof Faith
Bulletproof Faith: A Spiritual Survival Guide for Gay and Lesbian Christians
Candace Chellew-Hodge
A Wiley Imprint, San Fransisco, CA, 2008
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Put This On The Map
Put This On The Map. 34 minute documentary
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A Jihad for Love
Halal Films, 2007, Running Length: 2007
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Bi-sex-u-al
Produced by the United Church of Christ and Filmworks
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For the Bible Tells Me So
Atticus Group and VisionQuest Productions, Released By Fiirst Run Features, 2007, running length: 95 min.
Resource type(s): Movies and Multimedia
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8: The Mormon Proposition
David v. Goliath Films, 2010
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We're All Angels
Telekinetic Entertainment, 2007, Running Length: 90 minutes
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Call Me Malcolm
United Church of Christ and Filmworks, Inc., 2005, Running Length: 90 minutes
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A resource guide to coming out
A Resource Guide to Coming Out
Human Rights Campaign
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The New Gay Teenager
The New Gay Teenager
Ritch C. Savin-Williams
Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 2005.
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Lesbian and gay youth
Lesbian and Gay Youth
Caitlin Ryan and Donna Futterman
New York: Columbia University Press, 1998.
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the gift of sexuality
The Gift of Sexuality: Empowerment for Religious Teens
Steve Clapp
Ft. Wayne, IN: LifeQuest, 2006
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Faith Matters
Faith Matters: Teenagers, Religion, and Sexuality
Steve Clapp, Kristen Leverton Helbert, & Angela Zizak
(Ft. Wayne, IN: LifeQuest, 2003) 
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Prayers for Bobby
Prayers for Bobby: A Mother's Coming to Terms with the Suicide of Her Gay Son
Leroy Aarons
San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco, 1995.
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boy meets boy
Boy Meets Boy
David Levithan
New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 2003.
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Am I Blue?
Am I Blue?: Coming Out from the Silence
Marion Dane Bauer, ed.,
New York: HarperTrophy, 1994.
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The shared heart
The Shared Heart: Portraits and Stories Celebrating Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Young People
Adam Mastoon
New York: HarperCollins, 2001.
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Braving the Streets Her Way
Braving the Streets Her Way
By Anne Hull
Washington Post Staff Writer
Sunday, October 3, 2004; Page A01
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In the bible belt
In the Bible Belt, Acceptance Is Hard-Won
By Anne Hull
Washington Post Staff Writer
Sunday, September 26, 2004; Page A01
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A time to speak
A Time to Speak: Faith Communities and Sexuality Education
Debra W. Haffner and Kate M. Ott,
Norwalk, CT: Religious Institute on Sexual Morality, Justice, and Healing, 2005.
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Frequently Asked Questions

I know a teen who is struggling with his/her identity. What can I do to help?

Most importantly, tell them you love them and support them as they are. Then assure them they are not alone. The It’s Gets Better Project has collected thousands of affirming video messages and The Trevor Project offers a free, 24-hour hotline for depressed, LGBT and questioning youth.

What can my congregation do to affirm LGBT youth?

Consider offering faith-based sex education that affirms the breadth of human sexuality, including LGBT orientations.  Our Whole Lives is a comprehensive K-adult curriculum developed by the United Church of Christ and Unitarian Universalist Association that promotes self-worth, sexual health, responsibility, justice and inclusivity.